The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test.

heyppl, this is a really accurate and cool test. DO TRY and tell me if you want to what ennegram no you are.

http://www.okcupid.com/tests/the-quick-painless-enneagram-test

Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test by felk

4- the Individualist

you chose BY – your Enneagram type is FOUR (aka “The Romantic”) (EWWW) 

“I am unique”

 

Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.

How to Get Along with Me

  • Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me. (lol)
  • Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
  • Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
  • Though I don’t always want to be cheered up when I’m feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
  • Don’t tell me I’m too sensitive or that I’m overreacting!

What I Like About Being a FOUR

  • my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
  • my ability to establish warm connections with people (hehes. only when i actually do connect)
  • admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
  • my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
  • being unique and being seen as unique by others
  • having aesthetic sensibilities
  • being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me (sometimes ppl say im too blunt though)

What’s Hard About Being a FOUR

  • experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair (ok la. despair is a strong word)
  • feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don’t deserve to be loved( no i always think i should be loved. jkjk)
  • feeling guilty when I disappoint people
  • feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
  • expecting too much from myself and life
  • fearing being abandoned
  • obsessing over resentments ( sometimes very true)
  • longing for what I don’t have

FOURs as Children Often

  • have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
  • are very sensitive
  • feel that they don’t fit in ( nah i was a pretty active kid)
  • believe they are missing something that other people have ( dun rmb thinking tt way)
  • attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.  ( oh no, elmo was my ideal hero?)
  • become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood ( still)
  • feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents’ divorce) (?)

FOURs as Parents

  • help their children become who they really are (cool)
  • support their children’s creativity and originality
  • are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
  • are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
  • are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
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