i was watching the U channel or maybe channel 8 show : nu ren da zhu yi (women on top). and the topic for tt ep was :
if you could choose in your supposed next life or in other words, reborn, would you rather be male or female.
i thought this was rather intersting.
i mean i enjoy the perks of being a girl, i did. i’m not exactly a crybaby, but at least being a girl releases the restraint tt men have when on the verge of crying. they hold back their emotions, dreams and aspirations and opinions sometimes to the extremes just so they can be ‘more of a man’.
and to me, those things make me who i am, not just cos im a girl. so if i were born a man, i dunno if i can oversome tt stupid desire to appear more masculine and speak or do things freeely as i do as a girl.
but actually, being a woman is bad too.
there’s alot of hurtful things men do. though i iahve no expereice at all, its constantly a line by women who have been hurt before, and tt makes up like what ALOT of women?
and worst still, they will never understand cos they just cant dig out their emotions, which really is the basis of logic, sth theyre supposedly more inclined to.
and being a woman would also mean being mroe decisive,adpatable and intuitive. that is also very important
i dunno, somehow i feel degraded when i think of myself as male. i guess i can read maps better. i would have been able to understand elecrtical circuits in lower sec. and have much better direction sense.
and i wouldnt have to experience the physical pain of childbirth.
or having hte luxury of not doing housework, or really anything outside of work. being more able to leave handling children to females.
hmm.. but truth be told. outside of childbirth pain. i wouldnt mind doing housework. i love making a place more homely. and i love kids. and i would love to cook.
but i also need to work. i doubt i could stay at home all hte time and be a housewife as my career.
i think the best case sccenario is to be born female but having the big picture mindset of a male, but the nurturistic and verbal ability of females.
once again im not sure.
this is intersting too:
If you give her a house, she’ll give you a home.
If you give her groceries, she’ll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile, she’ll give you her heart.
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.
So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit.”